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Infidelity FTW

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When I first read this headline – “Mother’s Day makes wives want to cheat on their husbands” – at first I was like “WHAT?”. Then I was like “how in the name of everything that’s adulterous and naughty did they generate such statistics?”. I did a double-take when I saw that they picked up this data from a dating website* for married people. Then I did a triple-take (and a silent LOL-chuckle) when I read the website‘s tagline –


It’s a pity I can’t open the website from India, but it makes me wonder all over again – Why do people get married at all? Why exactly do Americans get married and then find it necessary to fool around? Indians have the ‘excuse’ that arranged marriages are an ineffective method for finding matches for people (yeah, nice try). But, off the top of my head, I cannot think of any non-demeaning reason for such American infidelities, given the supposedly advanced state of their civilization and liberal thinking. I single out America not because of any bias against the country -it is the best country to be a citizen of, for now at least – but because it seems like most of the remaining ‘Western Civilization‘ seems to have done away with this annoyance by quite often choosing to not get married at all.**

Is physical and emotional fidelity supposed to be more like a fine print in any marriage nowadays?

(via kottke.org)

*I seriously doubt whether such a website would be allowed to even run in India. It would be demonized for trying to ‘put bad thoughts’ in the minds of ‘pure, married people’. Speak no evil, hear no evil, see no evil – that’s what we are supposed to do.

** Sorry that I mention this without any supporting links, it’s just something I read somewhere. Please feel free to search for stuff to prove/dismiss this (and send me a link if you find one for either)


Written by sujaybedekar

July 6, 2010 at 5:15 am

What an Idea?

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Most advertisements these days are often fairly unrelated to the product they promote but people like anyway. The product ends up as an ‘oh what was that ad for? oh yes ___’ thing, which is quite alright I guess. But sometimes, an ad makes you think – not like introspect and all but they make you wonder as to what exactly it is trying to say, especially if there’s a social message thrown in and it is beamed all the time on all channels always.

Take the latest Idea Cellular ‘What an Idea Sirjee’ campaign going around on TV these days. Abhishek Bachchan is a father/ priest in a village who hits upon an Idea to promote primary education, which by itself is a noble cause. Very commendable, very nice indeed.

The followup to this one has a phoren-returned dude getting stunned by a Marathi village kid’s English. Very funny. After all, who doesn’t like to see smart-asses given a polite ‘up-yours’, eh? I do 🙂

And then you have an old Marathi grandpa saying grace (in English) before a spartan meal because his granddaughter now goes to school. Bravo, I say!

I probably would have left it at that had these ads not been hammered all the time (and at times in succession). The sustained exposure made me think, and making people think when they don’t want to can be quite dangerous. I wondered –

1. Is primary education about teaching English? Rather, is English proficiency a proof of literacy? Wouldn’t you be better off educating the rural kids in their native languages and leave the English for later?

2. I like to believe that I belong to a family of literates, but I never recall saying grace ever at the table. All I remember is my dad saying some mantras on certain special occasions to invoke our forefathers I think. I do recall Christians, though, thanking the Sweet Lord for putting food on their table all the time- especially in movies and soaps when they’re trying to be all happy and family-ish. I suddenly notice that Abhishek Bachchan is a church father in what is clearly a Maharashtrian landscape (a fairly improbable occurrence, btw). The mind suddenly harks back to the whole reason why Christian missionaries came to our shores hundreds of years ago. <pause> Is this ad campaign about educating the young, or is this about ‘converting’ them to the other side? Did I just type that out loud? Oh My (God)^340 million

I’m surprised that no one has noticed this yet. One might say that I’m being all Raj Thackeray-ish (or 90’s Bal Thackeray-ish) but the Marathi manoos of today has got to err on the side of caution these days. Maybe this is what is called overkill or what being cranky and nitpicky is all about – or all of the above.

NB: Given the absurdity of statements one gets to hear these days, I unfortunately find it necessary to clarify that I am actually kidding. If you can’t joke about religion, what can you joke about? Politics? Bah.

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August 9, 2008 at 4:35 pm